«The best ways to raise the impregnated and infantile person are not to give the right to error, control every step and strive for the child to realize your unrealized dreams” the psychologist Julia Hippenreuter says.
In order to cope with children’s shyness in front of strangers, show the child a model of communication. You can go to the store with him and specifically consult with the salesman. If a child is afraid to talk on the phone,then call him more often to show or prescribe patterns of communication and behaviour. This technique is often used by managers who work with clients.
Teach a child to set goals! It is clear what it expects from tomorrow when this method is used and a day regime with clear objectives will help it achieve these goals. Start with100 goals per year to 5-7 per day. These are small steps to the formation of an independent and free personality», psychologist Larisa Surkova writes.